A self is not given. It emerges.
Essays and reflections on how we become who we are.
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The Emergent Self is a place to think carefully about how we become who we are — through humiliation and recognition, belief and doubt, loss and meaning. I’m Robert K. Green, a writer and scholar who has spent a lifetime questioning what we’re told it means to be human. Read, disagree thoughtfully, and join the conversation.
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For fifty years my family has traded records and old photos, but one branch we left alone: a third cousin who became a Klan leader. What a family tree can and cannot explain about racial hatred.
- Robert K. Green, Ph.D.
Violence came into a classroom on East 38th Street. Years later I am still asking what brought those men there, and what it would take for a different life to emerge.
- Robert K. Green, Ph.D.
For years I've called my dark years a gift. Here I put that claim to the test: suffering can become a place of growth, but growth never makes the harm good.
- Robert K. Green, Ph.D.
From the blog
My friends laugh at me for talking to my computers. They laughed at the bicycle, the novel, the test tube, and the dating site too. The stigma that greets every new technology is never really about the tool.
- Robert K. Green, Ph.D.
"I don't see color" is usually offered as a promise of fairness. For many White people, it may really be a description of privilege.
- Robert K. Green, Ph.D.
The person who flatters you most may be the one most likely to turn on you. A meeting I came to dread, the research behind it, and why the truth people can’t tell you goes somewhere else.
- Robert K. Green, Ph.D.
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